Busy and lazy at the same time?

I didn't know it was possibly to be really busy, yet feel incredibly lazy all at the same time, but it seems that's the case as of late.

The semester is coming to a close. I rocked the final in my networking class, which was a great feeling. Had I flunked it, I would have felt very insecure about my current job lol. Now I just need to work on my final paper for my writing class. Blech.

My company is gearing up for our big move next week. It has been crazy busy. We'll be putting in wicked terrible hours next week and next weekend I'm sure. I'll be so happy when it's over.

So, yeah, that is the productive side. But with all of THAT going on, I'm staring December in the face with NO Christmas tree. I did not and probably will not make any Christmas cookies or send Christmas cards. The tree might make it up this weekend, but if it doesn't, I give up.

One would think that having 'Lil Bit around would fuel my Christmas spirit, but she'll probably tear all of the decorations off the bottom half of tree and/or knock it down anyway.

Sadly, I've also been procrastinating on final details in the wedding planning, including getting my dress altered. I should really get on that, lest I want to trip and fall or have a wardrobe malfunction.

I feel like this post is super boring....so I'll stop rambling and leave you with this picture. It's a geeky throwback to some "old" technology. You would not believe how many of these were in our server room....

The Power of a Necklace

Women of the world, I am going to tell you something so simple, yet so profound that it is going to boggle your mind. My friends, I have learned the power of the greatest accessory in a woman's arsenol of weaponry to look good - the necklace. Carefully chosen and properly worn, this simple piece of jewelry can cost $5 but make you feel like you're capable of stepping out into the world and making millions and conquering all.

It all started yesterday as I was getting ready for another day at the office. Since I have class on Tuesday nights, The Hunk is in charge of taking 'Lil Bit to daycare and picking her up on his way home. That normally means The Hunk gets the shower first while I spend some time with my girl. It also means that they are gone when I take my shower and get ready.

Yesterday, I took a few extra minutes to get ready. I took an extra long shower, dried my hair all the way instead of just halfway, and actually wore eye makeup, which I do infrequently during the week. I was feeling ok about how I looked. Then, on a whim, I decided to look through my stash of necklaces. I've been on a sort of necklace-wearing hiatus for the most part because of 'Lil Bit's grabby hands, but now that she's finally getting bored with things after just two seconds, it is easier for me to distract her from what's around my neck.

Can I just tell you that I own more necklances than I even knew I did? I have the nice ones that The Hunk has given me over the last couple of years. I have many, many strings of beads in all different shapes, sizes, colors, and lengths. I have a simple chain in both gold and white gold. Oh, and I have the obligatory cross.

Anyway, I opted for a jingly metal set of beads and rings in black, silver, pearl, and clear. Immediately after putting it on, I felt sassy. Put together. Ready to walk with confidence and kick some serious ass. Isn't that weird?

I've written posts on how many different directions I'm being pulled right now. I've complained about being tired. I've whiled about feeling worn down. Work life is hectic. School is draining. My website is stressing me out.

But today, I'm wearing a necklace (and my favorite pair of jeans, which are also important to a woman's arsenol), and dammit, I feel good.

Now if only the millions would start rolling in.....

Music For Cool Moms?

I'm taking a break from this hectic workday to have some lunch and come write. Although I have much to write about in terms of what's goin' on with the fam, I'm going to write about something fun.

This past weekend, The Hunk and I were out and about with 'Lil Bit, listening to the radio as we were driving around. As of late, I've been on this weird Indy rock and other unclassifiable music kick. For example, I'm in love with the White Rabbits. Sure, I came across them because one of their songs actually ended up on the radio, which makes it somewhat mainstream, but I still think they're Indy because of their sound and the fact that iTunes says so. :p I love their songs "Percussion Gun," "While We Go Dancing," and "Pilot."

Switching gears to a group that doesn't really fit any genre except perhaps Folk....Beirut. "Mount Wrocklai (Idle Days)" is a great song! I dunno why since it's rather repetitive, but trust me, it is.

Then, if you want to hear a punk rock band, opt for The Gossip with their lead singer that is clearly going to be famous just for her vocals and not her looks, which is quite refreshing actually. She certainly doesn't fit the stereotypical image of someone you'd find up on stage. Sadly, that's probably part of the reason not many people know about them. However, her voice is great, she has a nice rock star scream, and her songs give great advice. Check out "Fire With Fire." I like to belt it out as I'm driving. My voice isn't as edgy as hers. Must work on that. Ohhhh, you know who she reminds me of? Imagine a punked out Aretha and you've got The Gossip's front lady. Cool, no?

Let's see, what else do I have on my playlist? Oh, yes! We cannot forget Sia. Wow, Sia. This woman is said to be able to fill a huge auditorium using no amplification at all. I like to describe her lyrics as being "raw," meaning she puts it all out there for everyone to see. I cannot name my favorite Sia song due to fairly equal love for all, but a few that I find myself singing more often than not are "Sunday", "Death by Chocolate", "Breathe Me", and "Lentil." I don't fill an auditorium while singing her songs....just the car....but it works.

And something that I liked BEFORE it became mainstream (thankyouverymuch) due to its appearance on TV, Phoenix's "1901." It's, like, totally catchy and stuff.

Ok, so yes, if you're listening to these recommendations, you're probably getting whiplash. Seriously, you should see the craziness that is my iTunes.

Anywho, back to driving around with The Hunk. We stopped for lunch at Jose Peppers (you should hear how I'm saying it in my head as I type, it would crack you up) after hearing some other band I like on the local alternative station. As we walked up to the door, The Hunk informed me that just because I like Indy rock, doesn't mean I'll be "The Cool Mom" when 'Lil Bit gets older.

Maybe *I* won't be a cool mom since I'll probably be all disciplinarian and such, but at least I'll like good music.

Caffeine Works Better at Night

I had a Java Chiller from Sonic close to 10pm. That was not such a good idea. I'm wired! Luckily, I've been using my sudden energy burst on working on the forums for my brand spankin' new website!

I can't wait to share more details, but for now, I must prepare for the crash that will inevitably come.

Until next time,
-MFW

I Heart Lists

Things are great over here in my corner of the world. As is usually the case, I've got a lot on my plate at once, so I'm just plugging along, trying to tackle bits and pieces of everything one thing at a time. Because I love lists so much, I thought I'd update everyone that way. Here's what I'm up to:

-Planning a destination wedding! That's right, The Hunk and I are tying the knot! Woo hoo! We're super stoked. Our ceremony is going to be on a beautiful beach in Siesta Key, FL. Since there won't be many guests, we're skipping a reception and just having a nice dinner at a restaurant afterwards.

-Finishing the semester at school. With only a month of school left, the semester is starting to wind down. It isn't any less demanding. In fact, instructors are crazily asking for longer and more in-depth assignments. Don't they know I have other things to do?! Admittedly, I haven't spend as much time on school over the past few weeks as I should have, so I need to do some catching up in order to be ready for my final in my Cisco class.

-Becoming an Aunt! My sister had her adorable baby girl on 10/29. Check out this pretty little face!



-Gearing up for a Website Launch! I'm launching a new website hopefully at the end of this month. Sorry, no details until after the launch, but it is going to be great! I'm very excited to be able to provide such a unique and wonderful service to others.

-Celebrating the unseasonably warm fall with the fam! The fall weather here in the Midwest has been gorgeous over the last few weekends. 'Lil Bit got to play in the leaves yesterday and really enjoyed it.



We also walked around an outdoor mall and went out for pizza. 'Lil Bit LOVES pizza!



Those are just a few of the happenings going on 'round here.

More to come later!

Until next time,
-MFW

A Baker's Dozen

Happy 13 Months, 'Lil Bit!



In light of her being 13 months old, here are 13 Fun Facts about 'Lil Bit.

1. Her favorite food is any kind of fruit - bananas, grapes, peaches, pears. She'll choose fruit over just about anything else.

2. Has four teeth fully in with two more that just broke through the gum.

3. LOVES to read books. How many one year olds do you know that will sit through two or three entire board books?!

4. Is super efficient at cruising the furniture but has yet to take those highly anticipated first steps.

5. Loves to be chased around the house, especially by her daddy. She squeals and giggles. It is very cute.

6. Still has her beautiful blues. The best way to describe her eyes is to have you all visualize the ocean. You know that really dark blue where the ocean meets the horizon? That would be the color of my girl's eyes.

7. Blabbers almost constantly. Dada, nana, gaga, baba and every great once in a while mama, though I sometimes think it is a conspiracy between her and The Hunk NOT to say mama. No words yet, but you'd think she was truly trying to say something by the amount of "talking" she does and how expressive she gets at times.

8. Is battling separation anxiety. :( She cries most mornings when I drop her off at daycare and even whines if I leave her sight or am just not close enough to her at home.

9. Is fairly independent (as long as she knows where Mommy is haha) and doesn't have a security blanket or lovey. She does, however, still sleep with her binky.

10. Is very into figuring out how things work like light switches, handles, levers, etc.

11. Sleeps from 7pm to 7am still, though she has fussed a couple of nights here and there in the last couple of weeks due to her molars coming in.

12. Is completely fascinated with the stairs.

13. Adds so much richness and color to her mommy's and daddy's lives that we cannot imagine our life without her.

Of COURSE I Have to Weigh In - Obama Wins the Nobel Peace Prize

Normally, I try to steer away from posting political views in public because, quite franky, I get tired of reading others', so I figure I'll spare everyone else from mine. However, I just have one statement to make about Barak Obama winning the Nobel Peace Prize... It is like a beauty pageant where the pretty face that says, "I wish for world peace" is given the crown. Do you actually think she DOES anything to acheive her supposed goal of world peace? Heck no, just like Barak Obama had done nothing deserving of a Nobel Peace Prize nomination just weeks after being inaugurated. It makes no sense!

I have a vision that children aren't subjected to violence, that people don't go hungry, and that those who work hard should have ample retirement without having to cover the asses of those who do not work a day in their lives.

Now then, where's MY medal?